I need advice

Story:
I have a friend that's a guy that likes a friend of mine (that's a girl). Everyone knows that he likes her, but she doesnt like him back (I think, she's been ignoring him lately).
BUT
I also think I have a crush on her too, but I'm not sure if I do. Everyone knows that I had a crush on her last year, but I got over it.
Now, no one knows that I have a maybe crush on her again. What do I do?


I'd appreciate help from older people from 15 to 30ish, since that's my age group (im 14).
I realize going to a gaming forum is a stupid idea on advice like this, but no other forums I go to are allowed at my school comps =(

I've gone out with 100x girls.
I know so many situations. xD

I just say ; Ask her out if you want too. ;3

but my friend likes her, and if i ask her out, then everyones gonna call me a back stabber if she says yes, and if she says no, then it'll be super embarrasing

Are you close with her?

And---Talk with your friend. o.o'

i'm kinda close, but not that much.
i kinda did, he seems okay with it, but he's been treating me a bit differently, and i dont wanna not be friends with him just because of a girl...

and whats more weird is that the girl we both have a crush on has a best friend who has a crush on my friend... but we dont know for sure (she acts differently around him, and there's been a lot of clues)

You think you like her? Either it's you don't or you like her... even the most little bit. D: you need to be definite with yourself before you can make a move or anything.

i'm confused, i told myself not to like her, but she's been looking really cute lately or something else, i dont know, ughhh

IceDevil wrote:i'm confused, i told myself not to like her, but she's been looking really cute lately or something else, i dont know, ughhh

Well, if you like her I'll say go for it because it doesn't hurt to try. Really, it doesn't. I think that if a guy can't even confess to a girl that he has feelings for her, he doesn't seem fit to be a man.

And if you are worried about your friend, if she doesn't like him, and it's a one way love, then he should understand that since they are not official, there are no rules written in stone or anything that says that you can't go for her.

As well, think of it, is it that if you are gonna go for her, will it break the friendship between the both of you? Do you think that she is worth your friendship?
I personally think that if he is truly a good friend of yours he would respect that, especially if the girl doesn't like him back.

i always say friends before girls, i'm not sure if any girl is worth it at my age...

IceDevil wrote:i always say friends before girls, i'm not sure if any girl is worth it at my age...

At the age that we are in, I say it's more infatuation than love.
So I don't think it's worth it
unless your friend really doesn't mind it
but then again, should you be staying away from her because of your friend?

lala so much contradiction.
Though, even for me, like 2 or so years older than you, even though 80% of the time the guy I go out with is older than me ... I just don't think it's something like you can call a "keeper" when we're at an age to explore 8D..

After a bit of thinking I have an idea
I'll go talk to my friend and let him go for her, because I'm an absolute scaredy cat when it comes to asking girls out, thats the only thing i'm a scaredy cat on. I'm okay with talking about ex-crushes and talking to cute girls, but I can't flirt with a girl I have a crush on. So I'll tell myself to stop liking her. how about that?

IceDevil wrote:After a bit of thinking I have an idea
I'll go talk to my friend and let him go for her, because I'm an absolute scaredy cat when it comes to asking girls out, thats the only thing i'm a scaredy cat on. I'm okay with talking about ex-crushes and talking to cute girls, but I can't flirt with a girl I have a crush on. So I'll tell myself to stop liking her. how about that?

if that's what you really want then go for it.

hope its not one of theese 8D

Just get out my face
Just leave me alone
And no you can't have my number
'Cos I lost my phone

Leca wrote:hope its not one of theese 8D

Just get out my face
Just leave me alone
And no you can't have my number
'Cos I lost my phone

that would be sad =(

Took you less than 3 hours to make a decision.

you are good, you know what you are doing


Friends are definitely before love, but if your friendship is over because the girl he likes falls for you, then don't feel remorse for the friend you lost.

True friends are there for support, not there to serve.

ty Hentrix,
I did it!
And today the girl gave my friend a part of her cookie, and it was really cute, and at the same time, I felt kinda jealous but I'm happy for my friend. YAY!

And I'm not sure but I think I saw them kissing at the end of school

Hentrix wrote:Took you less than 3 hours to make a decision.

you are good, you know what you are doing


Friends are definitely before love, but if your friendship is over because the girl he likes falls for you, then don't feel remorse for the friend you lost.

True friends are there for support, not there to serve.

Hentrix, that was cute. ;3

somewhat a good ending to you situation then